你是李明。请以为题，向英文报纸写一封信，批评子女虐待老人，老人死后却又花钱大操大办丧事的不良社会风气。信的开头部分已经写好，要求根据下面的要点提示将信补全
1.二自虐待老人的事例：在住、吃、治病方面各举一例;
2.老人死后儿子花钱大办丧事的事例：2-3例。
Big Funeral Is Too Late
Dear editor:
Grandma Li was my neighbor, who died last month. The old lady had three sons. All of them had grown up and got married, but none of them wanted to take care of her. They let her live in a small dark room. They gave her little food. When she got ill, they refused to take her to hospital.
But to my surprise, the old lady’s sons spent a lot of money on her funeral. The funeral lasted several days, and scores of cars and trucks were used on the day when the old lady was buried.
What is the use of such a big funeral for the old lady? It is too late for her. We should take care of old parent s while they are alive instead of spending so much money on them when they are dead.
Li Ming
