走与停
Go and stop
刘禹锡说：“千淘万路虽辛苦，吹尽狂沙始到金。”然而现实生活中真是这样的吗？那可不一定，就算巨轮上的帆任凭它再顽强，再牢固也有被狂风袭卷的时候。人生亦如此，若沿着自己的路走下去，只能说明你的意志力比较顽强，并不代表你一定能成功。所以有时候选择停止也是好的。
Liu Yuxi said: "thousands of taowan Road, although hard, blowing out the sand to the gold." But is it true in real life? That's not necessarily, even if the sails on the giant ship are tenacious and firm, they will be swept by the wind. The same is true of life. If you follow your own path, it only shows that your willpower is tenacious, which doesn't mean you will succeed. So sometimes it's good to stop.
《开心辞典》中曾有这样一幕：一青年在答题台上答题，他怀孕的妻子在观众席上静静地等待着他胜利的佳音。然而当他顺利闯过三关时却选择放弃。这种情况是罕见的，因为在小丫的主持下选手对她的“继续吗”的回答总是肯定的，可那位青年人却出乎所有人的预料，坚定地说出“停止”两字。正当观众那些冷嘲热讽朝他泼去时，却被他在小丫面前的回答征服了。
"Happy Dictionary" once had such a scene: a young man is answering questions on the answering table, his pregnant wife is quietly waiting for the good news of his victory in the audience. However, he chose to give up when he successfully passed the three hurdles. This kind of situation is rare, because under the chairmanship of Xiaoya, the contestant's answer to her "continue?" is always positive, but the young man, contrary to everyone's expectation, firmly said the word "stop". Just as the audience's sarcasm poured on him, it was conquered by his answer in front of Xiaoya.
小丫问：“如果你的孩将来问你为何不勇往直前，你怎么回答？”“有些事情并不一定要到达终点，停止可能获得更多。”“那如果你的孩子只考了80分就不上进了，你怎么教育他？”“我会说：”你若尽了最大努力，那我不怪你。‘人生并不一定要走到最辉煌的顶峰，关键是要享受走的过程。“就是他的这两次回答博得了热烈的掌声，得到了来自观众心灵最深处的敬佩。
"If your child asks you why you don't go forward in the future, what's your answer?" she asked "There are things that don't have to get to the end. Stopping can get more." "How can you educate your child if he doesn't make progress if he only scores 80?" "I will say," if you do your best, I don't blame you. "Life doesn't have to go to the most brilliant peak, the key is to enjoy the process. "It was these two answers that won warm applause and the deepest admiration from the audience.
倘若你爬山，累了就停下来，先享受一下千层绿浪的清幽，郁郁葱葱的野花野草，感受一下另类的幸福，再继续攀登，那“会当凌绝顶，一览众山小”的感觉便油然而生了，那种豪情壮志也体会到了。但如果你累了还继续攀登，那到达山顶就困难了，说不定还会因累而窒息。
If you climb the mountain and stop when you are tired, enjoy the quiet green waves, the lush wild flowers and grass, feel the alternative happiness, and then continue to climb, then the feeling of "will be Ling peerless, see all the small mountains" will be born spontaneously, and that kind of ambition will also be realized. But if you are tired and continue to climb, it will be difficult to reach the top of the mountain. Maybe you will be choked by fatigue.
所以，有时走走停停也是一种良策。即便有倒下的时候那也只是躯壳，只要坚持不让意志倒下。因为意志倒下是最可怕的。
So, sometimes it's a good idea to stop and go. Even if there is a time when it is only a body, as long as we insist on not letting the will fall. Because the fall of will is the most terrible.
或走或停在于己，只要你把自己当作帆，那就依实力而行吧！毕竟过程才是最重要的。失败时别忘了：帆也有倒下的时候，不过就是自己停在那儿歇了口气罢了。等气歇够了再走也不迟啊！说不定走得更快。
Or go or stop in yourself, as long as you regard yourself as a sail, it depends on your strength! After all, the process is the most important. Don't forget when you fail: the sails also fall, but you just stop there and have a rest. It's not too late to leave when you have enough breath! Maybe it's faster.
[
