此时有声胜无声
Sound is better than silence
白居易在《琵琶行》中写下了“别有幽愁暗恨生,此时无声胜有声”的千古绝句。也许,这是当时千言万语在无言中的最好写照。但有时,或者说更多的时候应是有声胜无声。
Bai Juyi wrote the eternal quatrain "don't worry about life, but it's better to be silent than to have a voice". Perhaps, this is the best portrayal of thousands of words in silence at that time. But sometimes, or more often, there should be more sound than silence.
语言是人类与其它动物的重要区别,它必有其过人之处。它是沟通人与人之间的桥梁,它是化解仇恨的有用手段,它是国与国合作的基础……
Language is an important difference between human beings and other animals. It must have its own advantages. It's a bridge between people. It's a useful means to resolve hatred. It's the basis of state to state cooperation
这一生最景仰的人是烛之武。不是他肯放下私人恩怨而为国挺身而出的品质,而是他竟能用一段话使秦师从边境中退去,挽救一国家,一个即将灭亡的国家。“若郑亡而有益于君,敢以烦执事”“越国以鄙远,君知难也”“焉用亡郑以陪邻?邻之厚,君之薄也”“且君尝为晋君赐矣,许君焦、瑕,朝济而夕设版焉”这些语句句句击中要害,简洁而又明了,让秦伯感受到亡郑的害处而是放弃攻郑。这就是语言促进沟通的力量呀!怎能叫人不佩服?
The most admired person in this life is the power of candle. It's not that he is willing to put down his personal grudges and stand up for the country, but that he can use a paragraph to make Qin Shi retreat from the border and save a country, a country that is going to die. "If Zheng's death is beneficial to you, dare to annoy the Deacon", "if you are despicable and far away from the state, you will find it hard to understand", "how can you use Zheng's death to accompany your neighbors? These sentences hit the point. They were simple and clear. Qin Bo felt that the harm of losing Zheng was to give up attacking Zheng. This is the power of language to promote communication! How can people not admire?
这一生最崇拜的人是曹植。试想当时曹植受到亲兄长故意刁难时,语言的威力又是何其大。曹丕要曹植七步成诗,难道此时能无声胜有声吗?曹植以惊人的智慧吟出了“煮豆燃豆,豆在釜中泣。本是同根生,相煎何太急?”的七步诗。这就是语言的魅力,这短短的四句诗使曹丕给曹植留下了一条命。同时,这下是他俩的一种沟通。这般厉害的人,怎么会不让人崇拜呢?
Cao Zhi is the most admired person in his life. Imagine the power of language when Cao Zhi was deliberately challenged by his brother. Cao Pi asked Cao Zhi to compose a poem in seven steps. Could it be silent at this time? Cao Zhi chanted with astonishing wisdom, "boil the beans and burn them, and the beans weep in the cauldron. It was born of the same root. Why is it too urgent to fry each other? " The seven step poem. This is the charm of language. The short four lines of poetry left Cao Pi a life. At the same time, this is a kind of communication between them. How can such a powerful person not be worshipped?
这一生最佩服的人是触龙。一个小小的人臣,竟能用语言的沟通来说服赵太后送自己最心安的儿子长安君去当人质。触龙的那句“父母之爱子,则为之计深远”常常在我耳边回响,提醒着我语言在沟通中的力量。
The most admired person in this life is the touch dragon. A little minister could persuade empress dowager Zhao to send her most secure son, Chang'an Jun, to be a hostage. The sentence "parents love their children, and they have a profound plan" often echoes in my ear, reminding me of the power of language in communication.
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这些例子向我们展示了语言在沟通中的魅力。同样,当你不善于驾驭语言沟通时也许会引发严重的后果,古时晋国的冯妇被火活活烧死不是说明了这一点吗?在现代,父母与子女间的缺乏沟通,不正是在减弱着语言的力量?也许只要父母与子女抽出一点时间聊天,很多悲剧就可以避免。
These examples show us the charm of language in communication. In the same way, when you are not good at controlling language communication, it may cause serious consequences. Isn't it clear that Feng Fu of Jin was burned alive in ancient times? In modern times, the lack of communication between parents and children is weakening the power of language? Maybe as long as parents and their children take a little time to chat, many tragedies can be avoided.
是的,我们没邹忌讽齐王纳谏的能力,我们也没有周恩来总理巧答记者的智慧。但我们都有会用语言表达的能力,为何不物尽其用呢?
Yes, we don't have zouji's ability to satirize the king of Qi, and we don't have the wisdom of Premier Zhou Enlai to answer reporters skillfully. But we all have the ability to express ourselves in words. Why not make the best of everything?
在知识经济的今天,我们应不断提高我们语言的沟通能力,这样,才能立足于社会。
In today's knowledge economy, we should constantly improve our language communication ability, so as to be based on the society.
请记住,这是一个有声胜无声的社会。
Please remember, this is a society with voice rather than silence.