和孩子交流 Communicate With the Kid

　　In China, most parents keep reminding their children of the great expectation. It is natural for every parent wants their kids to stand out. But the traditional parents often make plans for their children, which is the dream that they hadn’t realized before, so they need their offspring to continue their unfinished dream. Most parents haven’t realized what they do is hurting their babies, as they take away these young people’s freedom. Every child has their own thought and right. As the complete individuality, they have their features and interest. Parents’ expectation sometimes takes away their speciality. Wise parents should not put their willingness to children, but let them make their own choice.

　　在中国，大多数家长总是不断的提醒自己的小孩去实现他们的期望。当然每个父母都希望他们的小孩脱颖而出。但是传统的家长经常是给孩子制定计划，而这些计划则是他们年轻时候没有实现的，所以他们需要后代继续他们未完成的梦想。大多数家长并没有意识到他们所做的是在伤害自己的孩子，他们夺走了这些年轻人的自由。每个孩子都有自己的思想和权利。作为完整的个体，他们有自己的特点和兴趣。父母的期望有时会剥夺他们长处。明智的父母不应该把他们的意愿强加给孩子，应该让他们做出自己的选择。