英语演讲稿：学习如何说不

　　things in the world are changing. people are changing and every creature is changing. changing is a neutral word. we can’t judge it is good or bad in general, because every coin has two sides. but sometimes we need to change, because it is good for us. sometimes we will meet some difficult or uncomfortable situation. when we are not able to change it, we need to change ourselves. if both of us refuse to budge, the problem would not be solved. sometimes we need to change our life attitude; sometimes we need to change our views of seeing things; sometimes we need to tolerant; sometimes we need to be strong. changing ourselves according to the specific situation is good for us.

　　世界上的事物是变化的。人们在变化中，每种生物都在变化中。改变是一个中性词。我们不能简单地去判断改变是好的还是不好的，因为事物都有两面性。但有时我们是需要改变的，因为这对我们有好处。有时我们会遇到一些困境或顺畅的情况。当我们无法改变这些情况的时候，我们需要改变的是自己。如果大家都僵持住，问题就不可能得到解决。有时我们需要改变我们的人生态度;有时我们需要改变我们看待事物的观点;有时我们需要宽容;有时我们需要坚强。根据具体情况改变自己对我们是有好处的。